If your PDA child is dysregulated, anxious, or overwhelmed, this is what you can to do. 😯 Follow for more realistic tools to help your PDA child, and you, move out of burnout, and finally thrive! | At Peace Parents
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If your PDA child is dysregulated, anxious, or overwhelmed, this is what you can to do. 😯 Follow for more realistic tools to help your PDA child, and you, move out of burnout, and finally thrive! | At Peace Parents
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How can I support my PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance) child or teen to stay regulated? 🧐 Experiment with the 4 S’s: 👉Screens 👉Safe Nervous System (yours) 👉Special Interest 👉Sensory intense experience, dopamine or novelty This is the framework I use to think through unsctructured time with my PDA son and has helped 100s of parents think through everything from long weekends with their PDA child to beginning #unschooling after school refusal. I hope it serves you ❤️ . . . #pathologicaldema
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How can I support my PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance) child or teen to stay regulated? 🧐 Experiment with the 4 S’s: 👉Screens 👉Safe Nervous System (yours) 👉Special Interest 👉Sensory intense experience, dopamine or novelty This is the framework I use to think through unsctructured time with my PDA son and has helped 100s of parents think through everything from long weekends with their PDA child to beginning #unschooling after school refusal. I hope it serves you ❤️ . . . #pathologicaldema
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Have you tried using declarative language with your PDA child or teen, but it didn’t quite work out as you were expecting? 🥴 Getting razor sharp clarity about the *deep why* behind what will help your PDA child or teen thrive is a big part of what we work on together in our live Paradigm Shift Program. Want to join a live call with me this Friday at noon (tomorrow - NYC time) to learn more about the program and ask any questions you have about it? Comment “PSP” below and we’ll send you the link
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Have you tried using declarative language with your PDA child or teen, but it didn’t quite work out as you were expecting? 🥴 Getting razor sharp clarity about the *deep why* behind what will help your PDA child or teen thrive is a big part of what we work on together in our live Paradigm Shift Program. Want to join a live call with me this Friday at noon (tomorrow - NYC time) to learn more about the program and ask any questions you have about it? Comment “PSP” below and we’ll send you the link
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Does your child say “stop talking” every time you ask them a question? 🧐 You're not alone. It's common among PDA children. Here are two tips to help you maintain connection and reduce that threat response in your home with your child or teen 💥 1. Wait for them to initiate conversation before speaking or asking questions. 2. Experiment with Declarative Language (for more on this see The Declarative Language Handbook by Linda K. Murphy). Hope this helps your connection with your unique child or
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Does your child say “stop talking” every time you ask them a question? 🧐 You're not alone. It's common among PDA children. Here are two tips to help you maintain connection and reduce that threat response in your home with your child or teen 💥 1. Wait for them to initiate conversation before speaking or asking questions. 2. Experiment with Declarative Language (for more on this see The Declarative Language Handbook by Linda K. Murphy). Hope this helps your connection with your unique child or
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Do you struggle to transition your PDA child or teen off a screen? 🧐 Have you thought about it like this? 👆 How does this framing support your understanding of how to experiment with screen use in your home? This observation of the four regulatory states has helped many parents understand the “deep why” behind their PDA child or teen’s behavior. It is also a shorthand I use to plan out our weekends in my home. ☺️ With screens there are nuances that depend on your specific PDA child and where t
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Do you struggle to transition your PDA child or teen off a screen? 🧐 Have you thought about it like this? 👆 How does this framing support your understanding of how to experiment with screen use in your home? This observation of the four regulatory states has helped many parents understand the “deep why” behind their PDA child or teen’s behavior. It is also a shorthand I use to plan out our weekends in my home. ☺️ With screens there are nuances that depend on your specific PDA child and where t
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When did you learn about PDA? Have you felt that familiar guilt? Feel free to share in the comments 👇 Here is my share: I learned about PDA when Cooper was 5.5 years old and deep in burnout. He had largely stopped eating, speaking or walking voluntarily. That was five years ago and now he is thriving. He embraces his challenges and advocates for himself as a PDA autistic individual. We have a close relationship and have had many conversations where we discussed the times “before i understood hi
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