Polyamory is not just about how many partners you can have, but whether you have the time, energy, and emotional bandwidth to support those connections well. You can be polysaturated with one partner—or even with none—if other life responsibilities like work, caregiving, or your own healing take up most of your capacity. Recognizing this limit is an act of care: for yourself, your current partners, and anyone you might otherwise start dating out of impulse rather than availability. Before openin

We’re both out to our families as polyamorous and have brought multiple partners to family events. Initially, Nick’s family was more cautious, but he helped them understand by gifting them When Someone You Love Is Polyamorous by Elizabeth Sheff. For Millie, the process was a bit easier because Kikuyu traditions include self-marriage (Kamweretho), female husbands, and polygamy, alongside monogamy. These cultural roots provided a natural springboard for thinking beyond monogamy. How you come out o

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